As we learn more about using mindset techniques consciously in our lives. We become masters at visualizing, affirming, and attracting what we desire. We learn how to infuse our desires with emotion and power, we learn how to raise our thoughts and align ourselves more fully with the circumstances we want to bring about. This is the mindset of allowing.
What is allowing?
However, most of us forget one crucial step in the process: allowing. Allowing is a multi-faceted phase in the creation process, and it can be confusing for those of us who haven’t had much exposure to the concepts.
In the past…
In generations, past, hard work was a way of life. Then in some cases, it was the ONLY way of life. Like many of you, I come from a long line of hard workers: mechanics and salesman, lighthouse keepers, factory workers, seamstresses, midwives, and public servants.
My ancestors were proud of their ability to roll up their sleeves and put in a hard day’s work to keep food on the table and clothing on their children’s backs. Hard work was simply a fact of life, not something to be resented, just something that must be done, like breathing or sleeping when the sun went down.
Through the examples of my forebears, I was taught that nothing comes freely in life. If I want something, it’s up to me to put my nose to the grindstone and work for it. This isn’t a bad thing, and I don’t want to diminish the accomplishments of those who paved the way for us.
Another way
However, the more deeply we delve into mindset principles, the more we realize that there is another way. Some would call it a better way but let us see it simply as an alternate path to a similar destination.
What is this alternate path?
The mindset of ALLOWING
As we just covered, action is needed at the beginning stages of conscious creation. We know we need to visualize our desires, affirm our belief in a new reality, raise our thoughts and come into alignment with the end result we want in our lives. What most of us do then is take further action to encourage our new circumstances to form physically. We might work harder to make more money, or we might join a dating service to meet the partner of our dreams. There is nothing wrong with these actions, except the belief that we need to “do” anything to make our desires manifest.
That’s where allowing comes in. What if, after we’ve visualized, affirmed, and expressed our desires, we simply let go? What happens then? Most of us are under the impression that nothing would happen. Ah, but we can ALLOW things to manifest the way we want. That’s the beauty of mindset techniques. We don’t HAVE to make things happen; we can simply allow things to happen.
So how do we allow? There are three key parts to allowing:
1)How
Let go of the “how.” This seems to contradict the mindset process because isn’t the whole point to control the outcome? It may seem so at the beginning, but as most of us go along, we eventually realize that the more we try to control the outcome, the fewer circumstances seem to work in our favor.
Consciously letting go of HOW tends to allow things to happen. We affirm that our desired outcome is already a done deal.
There’s no need to beg, manipulate, or control the situation because it already exists in perfect form. We simply need to let go and trust that things will happen for us in the best possible way.
2)When
Let go of the “when.” This is one of the most difficult things to do because we want what we want right NOW. We don’t want to wait for the intended timing or anything else.
Unfortunately, our very impatience can delay the process. Why? Because by wanting it right now, we place emphasis on the “wanting.”
Remember, we create what we focus on the most! If we focus on wanting, we create more want. By affirming that our desires will happen at exactly the right time, we automatically focus more on trust and faith.
We believe that our deepest heart’s desires are on their way to us, and guess what happens? They come more quickly.
3)Appreciate
It can be hard to appreciate what we have when we’re not happy with our lives, but once again, it’s all about what we focus on and what we attract.
The more appreciative we can be about our existing circumstances, the more we will attract things to appreciate. If you have to, start with something small and obvious.
Each morning when you awake, say something like, “I appreciate the opportunity to live another day. I appreciate the bed I slept in all night. I’m grateful that I can take a hot shower and put on clean clothes today.”
As you go about your day, take a moment to appreciate everything you can, no matter how small and insignificant it may seem. This is part of the mindset of allowing.
Over time, this puts you in a gratitude mindset and will begin to attract more and more things to appreciate – and more often than not, those things continue to get bigger and bigger the more you keep up with this practice.
The Best Way To Get Started Is To Quit Talking And Begin Doing
Walt Disney
Work hard?
So, does this mean that we never have to work hard again? We can just sit back and “allow” everything to happen for us? Yes, and no.
There is one more important point that ties into the concept of allowing, and that is taking inspired action. Occasionally, after we have expressed our desires and we’ve begun the mindset of allowing them into our lives, our mindset will provide a way for the US to bring about what we want, rather than simply plopping it into our laps fully formed.
In this case, we will usually feel a nudge in a certain direction. We might be inspired to start a business, buy a lottery ticket, attend a lecture, read a particular book, or any number of other actions. If we act immediately on these nudges, circumstances usually shift and opportunities appear. These opportunities usually create an opening that can help us to have our desires simply and easily, and often quickly.
Conclusion
Remember that inspired action shouldn’t be painful or difficult. It should feel wonderful and inspiring. You will feel excited about it, and eager to do it. That’s how you can tell whether you are being inspired to take a particular action, rather than feeling like you “have to” do it in order to get what you want. Work on your mindset of allowing.
Simply let go, relax, and allow the creative process to unfold exactly as it will. If you feel inspired to act, act. If not, just trust that your brain has your highest good in mind. Believe that, and let it guide your every step!
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